The Common Ground of Progressive ABA: Why It Shouldn’t Feel Foreign

As parents and educators, we are natural teachers. From a child’s first words to their first steps, we instinctively use strategies rooted in behavioral science-modeling, prompting, reinforcing, and even setting boundaries. These are the very principles that form the foundation of Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA), especially in its progressive form. Yet, when ABA is discussed in the context of autism or developmental disabilities, it often feels foreign, complex, or even controversial. Why is that? The Universality of How We Learn Think about teaching a toddler to say “please.” We don’t expect perfection from the start. Instead, we: Set up situations where communication is needed (communication temptations) Model the word ourselves Reinforce every attempt or approximation Gradually fade prompts as the skill strengthens Systematically reduce reinforcement, sometimes delaying gratification or even saying “not now” or “no” Teaching contextual "please" without expecting over po...